'Fake it until you make it' is so wrong. You can't fake confidence for more than a few moments; why? It shows when it matters. So, how can you supercharge your confidence as you move into 2025? Work on yourself daily.
Have you ever wondered why some people look like they were born confident? Chances are they've been working on themselves. What you see probably involved a lot of trial and error, experimentation, and some blood, sweat and tears. One thing confident people have in common is they believe in themselves.
Believe in Yourself
I know so many people who believe in themselves and stand head and shoulders above the rest. I've been lucky to be in this camp for as long as I can remember. I might not stand head and shoulders like these people, but I sure know how to handle my own self-esteem. I learned very quickly that seeking external validation wouldn't cut it anymore. Instead, I stopped worrying whether other people believed in me or not.
The most important belief is the one you have in yourself. It's your inner belief, your sense of worth and capability, that drives you forward. I appreciate that external validation has a role, but it keeps you chasing other people's perspectives, putting you in a vulnerable position. Believing in yourself creates a solid foundation of confidence and resilience that no external doubt can shake.
This self-belief helps you to approach your challenges, learn from failures, and persevere in adversity. The internal voice whispers, 'I can do this,' even when others might say otherwise. Interestingly, this level of confidence comes with continuous learning.
Keep Learning
If you're not learning, you'll stagnate. It's that simple. I'm not talking about reading books or going to class. I'm talking about turning learning into fun by having different conversations, creating experiences and sharing your ideas with others.
Learning in today's world is a must for personal and professional growth. It allows you to get new skills, knowledge, and perspectives, which leads to improved performance and more significant opportunities. Additionally, continuous learning helps you stay current and adapt to changes in your field. There's no excuse for learning after formal education is over. Why? Learning Comes in Many Forms
Learning Comes In Many Forms
Gone are the days when the classroom provided the majority of learning. That's not the case anymore because learning is everywhere, online, offline, on-site, offsite. It just depends on you and your preferred learning style.
I gave a young client of mine some homework before the Christmas break. I set up a small side gig to complement some new learning we are working on. Guess what? It's done a world of good to their confidence levels, enhanced their creativity, and added an extra spring in their step. I know this particular client is going to thrive in 2025.
Smart Learning
I've been working hard behind the scenes on my personal and professional goals for 2024. Each week, I've had wonderful experiences with my two favourite learning buddies. I've also been taking photographs of London and developing my social media skills, which has enhanced my development.
Shifting Gears
Your career is not a fixed path; it's a journey you can shape. If you're not happy at work, don't just endure. Rewrite your script and create the career you truly desire. A fulfilling career is not about finding the perfect job but continually shaping your role to align with your values, strengths, and aspirations. So, if you're unhappy at work, don't wait for change to happen. Pick up the pen and start rewriting your script today.
Parting Comments
Don't wait for circumstances to change. Take control of your narrative. Ask yourself those crucial questions: What's not working? What could be better? What's the one step you need to take? Then, act on the answers. This way, you'll start developing confidence when it matters.
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